Thursday, November 15, 2012

Love is selfish

Have you ever read about the story of Romeo and Juliet, or watched movies or shows about Romeo and Juliet? Anyway, you must have heard about it and knew this is a great romantic story. Love is the most basic feeling of people. Love makes us being together, to built family and have baby. Many people agree that love is selfless, however, the truth is love is selfish.

Love is concentrated and exclusive. People pay a lot of attention to their lover when their fall in love. Their are concentrated on him or her, they become sensible of everything about him or her. Besides this, they feel angry and sad when they saw he or she is too close with someone else. They ask loyalty from their lover and will show their loyalty. They want to be the most important person of him or her. It is impossible for most of the people to share their boyfriends or girlfriends with someone else.


To the contrary of concentrated, love is also thoughtless. They will pay a lot of attention to their lover, but they may don't care about other's feeling. The best example is Romeo and Juliet, their family are enemies, but this cannot prevent them fall in love. Many people will sacrifice something of others for the sake of love. That's why there are many lovers choose to elope. That's also the reason of people die for love. They don't care about what their family think, the only thing they care about is their love and lover.


The result and purpose of love also show that love is selfish. The purposes and results of people's love usually are being together and get married with the people who they love.  
They want to possess their lover and stamp their lover by marriage. The marriage ring is like a claim that tell everyone this woman or man belong to someone, please hold off!

Some people think love is selfless. Some people can contribute all to their lover, even their life. However, if they do not contribute those things to their lover, they will feel suffer. They sacrifice themselves to get self-gratification, and to comfort their hearts. 

I know love is selfish, but love is still the most beautiful feeling in the world. It gives people passion and energy, teaches people sacrifice and protection, and let people's life more beautiful.

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